Lewz

My dad tries to say he never spanked me lol, me and my brothers get a laugh outta that.

solimor

Hitting a child well I guess I see ya all in hell..

So why will I stat it so, well simple I know whats happened when a Father/mother cross that line, I understand the need for controlling your child but reaching out to violence (and yes spanking is) and you losing it, it just a mather of time before you hit in anger as well. Your a bad father/mother if you cant teach you child proper manners whit out beating into him, a Good father/mother mange to do so whit words and various teaching lessons whit out hitting a child

This is not ment as a flame but I believe if you going so low to hit a child (even in love or as it really is Controlled in the begging) you really going to hell that's unforgiven

Ruzan

You dont go to hell for following God's laws for the family ;p

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Lewz

Going to hell for spanking, very interesting

Duo

So stop spanking me at night, now you know God's watching!

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solimor

You go to hell for hurting you child based on a misprint law from God.

Some thing is unforgiven and this is one of em. I understand Gods word, I understand its man written and polluted by mans ideas, I understand and feel God, and I understand that I'm evil but I never lay my hand on a child so I guess I see ya in hell

Ruzan

Where to begin?

This forum is dedicated to Christian discussions. We have a section for other religions entitled [..wait for it..] "Other Religions". Not trying to flame you at all I'm just not sure what God or religion you are speaking about.

On the off chance you actually were referring to the God of Abraham and of Christianity in general, you are horribly, horribly mistaken.

What, exactly is a misprint law from God. I ask not condescending, I just do not understand what that term means. Did God command something but really meant something else, or are you referring to man changing parts of the bible? (specifically where it points to hurting a child as an unforgivable sin, next to blasphemy)

I can 100% understand your complete outrage over someone hurting a child, its disgusting and deserves punishment. But we are talking about giving spankings, not beating our children, I have to make that clear. Our God teaches us that if you do not punish your child ("Spare the rod"), you are creating a rotten egg of sorts.

Beating a child is HORRIBLE and wrong. Spanking them is an act of loving them.

Take for instance the kids you see in your neighborhood who are way too young to be out playing, 4-5 year olds out and about. Heres a clue, their parents do not love them. "how can you judge them", Because I am a parent, and to love your child is to worry about them and want them to succeed. When you send your child to school with baggy pants on and let them talk to you like garbage, you are showing them that you do not love them and that you do not care.

I spank because I love. And my God loves me for doing so. That is all there is to it.

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Duo

Baggy pants does not relate in anyway to disrespect, and/or "bad" kids. Just saying!

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Lewz

I wouldn't go so far to say that the parents don't love them because there not properly disciplining their children. Some people don't know how to discipline because they didn't have parents to show them. So i think that goes a little to far, but i do agree that parents who don't love their children also rarely discipline them and if they do there usually inconsistent and many times abusive.

solimor

I'M referring to Christian God, I wouldn't call my self Christian but I have read and understand the bible, I believe God exist I'm just not sure he cares/or he even has the ability to help, but I'm sure I can post a "hello" tread and give you my enter history one day. I'M referring to man misunderstand God, or even man Translate the wrong, the Book of God might be his word but it still written by man and has the faults of man within it. Believing blindly in the book is foolish in my eyes. I considered A childhurter ( in any ways).

I believe hitting a child is unforgiven any way or form, it you next of kind and even if its not stated in the bible right out a lot of things lead to it, just as easy as you find ways for god to support it.

I was playing outside at the age of 5, I'm raised Christian, and you know what I raised in a good safe place and my parents and my friends parents had ways to watch us as well as control you stated me only lead to you living in a unsafe place and something that is not true for everyone.

Baggy pants, i'm not sure what to say other they aren't to disrespect but a part of Culture as well as fashion, Hey my son at 3 has a baggy pants and he locks cute in it, its about fashion, but you seem to believe that Hip hop is Satan works and problem just see the "media" spoken hip hop rather then the culture behind it as well as the tails alot of song tells. this is your ignorance and doesn't really lead to a "bad" child or parent.

I stated before spanking a child is something you do because you FAIL at other ways to teach you child moral and how to behave, my Son already understand right and wrong, as well as what accepted and not, I don't need Fear to teach him this stuff I have other ways as a LOVING father to do. Your claim of God is just a way to justify you fault as a parent.
And whats today seems as a clear line is something you will pass and you "spanking" will become more as well as in anger, I know how its to have a abuse father as well as how its to have a father (step father) that just lose control Gradey.

Your hurting you child and fearing into be as you wish rather then teach him and this faults as a man i can not see a God accepts so other words condemning you to hell