As much as it pains me ( lol
) I'm going to have to agree with LFJC on this issue to an extent. Marriage is a very serious step in the relationship and not to be taken lightly by any means. Its sacred and sanctified by God and no, I don't believe he likes it one bit when a marriage ends in divorce. But to me there are certain exceptions, like infidelity and abuse. I don't believe for one second that God would wish me to stay in a marriage where my husband beat me all the time or verbally assaulted me day in and day out.
I do however think divorce has become so commonplace that its deemed the "easy" fix in a marriage so people don't want to put forth the effort anymore in trying to fix things. Sometimes a marriage is beyond fixable, sometimes its not - with a little bit of effort from both sides.
My husband and I have been married 5 1/2 years now and have a son. I'm his second wife. The first marriage ended when his wife cheated on him. Even then, he didn't leave her - she left him. He was willing to try and work it out. So - was he not to remarry because she left him? It certainly wasn't his decision.
Another scenario that generates a question. My uncle is married to his second wife. He is also her second husband. In his first marraige, the wife cheated on him and claimed the girl he thought for 10+ years was his daughter actually was not. Biblically justified ( though he wasnt a christian at the time ) he divorced her. His new wife, left her first husband because he was abusive, verbally, and he cheated on her. Now, my uncle and his wife have been married for 10 years and are beyond happy and in love. Since they got married, they have both found salvation and are two of the strongest Christians I've ever seen.
My question is - once they got saved, should they have divorced - which would have no biblical justification according to the above quoted scripture? OR, should they not get the divorce and live, in some people's opinions, sin? With the OP's belief - it seems a catch 22 and either way they are screwed.